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Phew... finally !!!

The other day i was cooking( yes yes i have started to cook) and my friend was in the kitchen as well. We were just discussing when suddenly out of nowhere she said ' Life me decisions lena itna difficult hai na ( 'It is so difficult to take decisions in life, right ?'). My immediate answer was...'yup'. But is it ?? I mean it is not taking the decisions which is difficult but it is analysing the outcomes and trying to foresee the consequences. We try to see wht would happen if i did this and what would happen if i did that. and then see how the series of events can result in something to our favour. works most of the time though. but not always .. which is when we tend to think that the decisions in life are tough to make.
the trick then is to retreat from the usual hulla bulla hoo of life sit and relax in a way that works best for you and think about wht it is that you really want to do. You may be surprised that what you want to do has consequences that are going to be challenging and demanding. You may also feel that the other path is much easier and much clearer. But if you dont live your life the way you want to then really what is the point.
I was surprised to yet find a lot of people who prefer the easier path even though it is not what they want to do. But end of the day is it really worth ? A day with no troubles AND no satisfaction at the end ? is it really worth it ?? i think not....what do you think .....

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